Relationship Red Flags Checker

Red Flags Checker

🚩 Relationship Red Flags Checker

Identify warning signs in your current or past relationship

Check all statements that apply to your relationship

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Important Safety Notice

This tool helps identify concerning patterns. If you recognize many red flags, especially in the safety category, please reach out to a therapist, counselor, or domestic violence hotline. Your safety matters.

Red Flags Identified 0

Out of 40 total warning signs

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Communication & Honesty

How they talk to you and handle truth

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Control & Boundaries

How they respect your autonomy and privacy

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Respect & Treatment

How they make you feel about yourself

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Trust & Loyalty

How they handle fidelity and honesty

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Emotional & Physical Safety

Critical: These are serious warning signs

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Effort & Partnership

How they show up in the relationship

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Values & Character

Core compatibility and personal integrity

What Is the Relationship Red Flags Checker?

The Relationship Red Flags Checker is an interactive digital assessment tool. It helps individuals identify concerning behaviors and toxic patterns in their personal relationships.

Key Features

  • Comprehensive Assessment: The tool evaluates 40 unique warning signs across seven behavioral categories.
  • Real-time Progress Tracker: A visual counter and progress bar update instantly as you select items.
  • Personalized Results: The system generates a severity score and specific recommendations based on your input.

How to Use the Relationship Red Flags Checker

  1. Read the Safety Notice: Review the warning at the top of the page regarding domestic violence resources.
  2. Review the Categories: Scroll through the seven sections, including Communication, Control, and Safety.
  3. Select Applicable Flags: Click the checkbox next to every statement that describes your relationship.
  4. Monitor the Counter: Observe the red flag counter at the top to see your current total.
  5. Click Analyze My Results: Press the red button at the bottom of the form to process your data.
  6. Review the Breakdown: Examine the category bars to see which areas of your relationship show the most concern.
  7. Follow the Recommendations: Read the suggested next steps and save the provided crisis resource numbers if needed.

Who Should Use This Tool?

  • Individuals in New Relationships: People can use this tool to spot early warning signs before becoming deeply committed.
  • Concerned Partners: Individuals who feel unhappy or anxious can validate their feelings with objective data points.

Support Professionals: Counselors or friends can use the checklist as a starting point for discussions about relationship health.